Category Archives: Traumatic Experiences

Please Return To Your Glass House

Posted on May 28, 2015 by beckikeyevents

I’ve missed all of you, ok not true. How about, I’ve missed all but three of you ! Sooooo, to those three followers of mine that are filled with hate and contempt, please return to your glass houses. I’m not … Continue reading →

Posted in Adoption, Child Abuse, cyber bullying, Traumatic Experiences | Tagged abused child, abusive mother, abusive relationship, adoption, child abuse survivor, jan meier plano illinois, Janice delp | 12 Comments

The Cruel Message From A Racist

Posted on March 21, 2014 by beckikeyevents

Last Sunday I was getting ready for bed after a long day of un-packing and organizing. Kira (my kitty) always gets a few treats at bedtime. I reached over to grab her treat bag on my nightstand when my cell … Continue reading →

Posted in cyber bullying, Evil blog comments, Freaks come out at night, KKK, Racism, Traumatic Experiences, Violent attacks | Tagged Coward behind a computer screen, Cruel blog comment, freaks that enjoy rape stories, Hidden Springs Road Fort Collins Colorado, racism, verbal abuse, white supremacy | 52 Comments

Keep Your Tissue, I Need To Grieve

Posted on January 7, 2014 by beckikeyevents

My feeling is when a person is crying/grieving let them do so. By handing a crying friend a tissue there is a hidden message asking them to stop crying. People need to cry in order to heal. Allow the flood … Continue reading →

Posted in Child Abuse, daughters, Dysfunctional Family Relationships, estranged fathers, father less children, Healing and Recovery, step fathers, Traumatic Experiences | Tagged biological fathers, emotional abandoned by fathers, emotional abandonment, fatherless children, grieving children, growing up fatherless, keep your tissues, needing to grieve, unavailable fathers | 20 Comments

The Rape Story

Posted on November 21, 2013 by beckikeyevents

Warning : This post may be a trigger for anyone who has been raped. Sperm Donor (SD) and I decided to move into a small apartment with his Great Aunt in the early spring of 1984. I was employed at a … Continue reading →

Posted in Domestic Violence, Family Secrets, PTSD, rape, Toxic Relationships, Traumatic Experiences, Violent attacks | Tagged domestic violence, family secrets, PTSD, rape, toxic relationships, traumatic experience, violent attacks | 19 Comments

Packing Up Our Life And Moving Forward

Posted on November 7, 2013 by beckikeyevents

Ronnie and I have both been so busy these last couple months. We are very close to leaving our home. Finally once and for all, off of Applegate Drive. For those of you that don’t know, we have lived on … Continue reading →

Posted in Domestic Violence, Dysfunctional Family Relationships, friendships, gift of love, Healing and Recovery, hope, leaving the past behind, new beginnings, Traumatic Experiences, Uncategorized | Tagged childhood memories, close friendships, elizabeth smart, happiness, memories of abuse, moving, painful childhood | 4 Comments

2 In, 2 Out

Posted on October 7, 2013 by beckikeyevents

Two-in There should always be (at least) two firefighters together when they enter a location that is considered a hazard area that is considered “Immediately Dangerous to Life or Health” (IDLH), i.e., the interior of the structure fire. Firefighters operating … Continue reading →

Posted in Dysfunctional Family Relationships, family bliss, friendships, gift of love, happiness, leaving the past behind, new beginnings, PTSD, Traumatic Experiences | Tagged court battles, hazard area, moving, new adventures, traumatic experiences, unconditional love | 13 Comments

I like October, I like October… Who Am I trying To Fool? I Hate October!

Posted on October 1, 2013 by beckikeyevents

It’s raining and gloomy here in Oregon. Today also is the first day of National Domestic Violence Awareness Month. October is also the anniversary of when I was stabbed. My wonderful husband, and soul mate’s birthday is in October. My … Continue reading →

Posted in 1-800-799-7233, Child Abuse, Domestic Violence, Family Secrets, Healing and Recovery, National Domestic Awareness month, Stop Domestic Violence, Traumatic Experiences, Violent attacks | Tagged a cry for help, anniversary of stabbing, Becki Duckworth, domestic violence, halloween, overcoming fears, shelter for women and children, violence against women and children | 15 Comments

Get Ready

Posted on September 26, 2013 by beckikeyevents

First of all, I am extremely humbled for all of you that have followed my blog for the past 11 months. All I have to share with you is myself. I am not a writer. I just have a story … Continue reading →

Posted in Adoption, beaten by mother, Dysfunctional Family Relationships, estranged fathers, Guest writer, Healing and Recovery, healthy relationships, identify problem children, Mental Health, narcissist, new beginnings, Open adoption, PTSD, Toxic Relationships, Traumatic Experiences | Tagged dysfunctional family, family betrayal, open adoption, open adoption vs closed adoption | 4 Comments

A Picture Is Worth More Than A Thousand Words

Posted on September 19, 2013 by beckikeyevents

Posted in Domestic Violence, Dysfunctional Family Relationships, Murder attack, party, PTSD, Stabbed, Traumatic Experiences | Tagged domestic violence, Event cupcakes, I survived a murder attack, launch party, raw truth | 4 Comments

Trucks And A Mask

Posted on September 13, 2013 by beckikeyevents

Frustration is the feeling for this Friday the 13th of September. I woke to the sounds of dump trucks heading to the top of our hill. Dump trucks, log trucks, water trucks have taken over our peaceful neighborhood for almost … Continue reading →